Is my husband still in love with her. Could you stay?

Wow..he betrayed you terribly. When I read your story it seems like you have made EXCUSES for your husband's behavior, Don't do this!!! If he truly loved you at all or respected you at all he could have told you what he was up to! Will you be able to wake up everyday with this guy and NOT THINK ABOUT WHAT HE DID???? This would be enough to drive a spouse crazy ....He will wake everyday without this worry,,,,As for you meeting this woman...and she cried...Stop worrying about their FEELINGS AND WORRY ABOUT YOU!!!!! I could NOT be with the man I love if he did this to me...What does this say about his VALUES, HIS COMMITMENT TO YOUR MARRIAGE, HIS LOVE FOR YOU???? In the end none of our advice will matter..ITS YOUR PERSONAL DECISION...But remember this..There are good guys out there that don't cheat NO MATTER WHAT THE WOMAN LOOKS LIKE!!!!!1